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Where Does Your Belief End?

If you ask me, “What was your first breakthrough since you decided to own your own business?” I could, without a doubt, say this: If you want to contribute more, you need to become more…

Being your own accountability partner when no one is around, putting yourself out there especially when it feels out of your “normal”, only having your own intuition to rely on…

They say we live our parents’ lives until roughly 24. Then we start to re-learn the way we make sense of the world.

Leaving corporate to go after my own dream had the same effect on me, like a fish out of water 🎣

If we are here to grow not just on mental or emotional levels but on a soul level too, then carving your own way and finding your optimum impact area in life (it could be working for someone too, if that truly feels authentic to you) could be the number one and most helpful thing that you can do for your karma, I believe 🙂

🕯️ If you want to increase your influence more in your biz, read some spiritual stuff to identify areas and hidden fears that might be keeping you small before you jump ahead to reading business growth strategies or worse, continue working your b**t off the same way 🙂

🕯️If you want to be more productive and disciplined, then look at where you drive your daily dopamine and whether you choose to get it from low-hanging fruit in your daily to-do list (like responding to emails or maintenance work) or from going after your long-term visions. ❤️ PS: If you want to be more fulfilled in love and friendships maybe again check where you drive your dopamine. From quick, surface level, conditional connections or chats or deep and real conversations and connection potentials that holds a mirror to you🪞

🕯️If you sense that you need to persevere a little bit more and trust your abilities to succeed, but you give up and start all over again the next day every day, then identify where the end of your belief is that holds you back from believing in your future more than you believe in the looping failure stories of the past in your head.

🕯️ If you inherently believe you are not worthy to receive and that it can happen to everyone else but not to you, then you first need to work the bugs out of your worthiness before you look at your offer.

I am not saying I figured it all out, but I am saying I now know the process really well from my personal experiences, and from studying tens, if not hundreds, of different viewpoints.

And the thing is, wisdom is generic. And there is only one truth that governs all in life, which is: what is within is reflected out. It’s never the other way around, and there is no exception for anyone.

We all live based on this one governing truth. Only there are an infinite number of interpretations of this truth we all choose to follow and listen to, just to be able to make more sense of it — and that’s the beauty of life experience.

But no matter where you go or which direction you look, you’ll face the same truth: what you are will be what you reflect and contribute to the community, and to your loved ones.

So my growing wish is to contribute more by becoming more. And honestly, I can’t think of a better life path than this 🙂 ✨

📣 If the context fit you and – if you are bored of hearing the same advices and feel like you need something else, anything but different… what you’ve never heard of maybe on job search, preparing for interviews, going after a job that you could only think of it in your dreams (too good to be true kind), then just check this out!

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