Stop fighting with your current reality.

Because this is the very reason why you cannot move to where you want to be. 

Acceptance is your #1 leverage to manifest your desires.

Acceptance is not settling down. 

Acceptance is not giving consent to less-than-desirable circumstances. 

Acceptance is just making peace.

Acceptance is power. 

Acceptance is taking your power back from the outside circumstances and people. 

Acceptance is the acknowledgment that you are the creator of your own reality and you can create a new one other than your unlovable circumstance.

Acceptance is also acknowledging that you have created that undesirable situation. 

This last one may not be easy to accept yet, "there is no assertion in the Law - there is only attraction." 

On the other hand, if we resist what we currently have. 

If we nag all the time. 

If we get angry at and blame other people for where we are.

If we complain.

If we get frustrated.

Feel upset with the God / Universe / Life. 

Then we deny ourselves from the first and foremost, the most crucial element in manifesting - the life force - chi - well being - stream of energy.

And without allowing the stream of well-being to flow freely in our lives, we always feel like we are stuck at some place in life. 

When we feel stuck, what is really stuck is the flow of life energy in those particular areas of our lives. 

There are a couple of practical ways to unstuck the stuck energy in your life,

1- Clear or fuel some of the energies. 

Allow fresh energy to circulate around that area at hand. 

How?

Energy flows where attention goes.

However, this time, we need a different stream of energy focusing on this area. 

The most effective way for this is to change your thoughts and, as a result, your beliefs about this situation. 

Every idea and belief has a unique, energetic imprint. 

Every new idea should visit us, leave its medicine, and move and give space for the new one.

Once this circulation breaks down, the bulk of redundant energy is stuck in certain areas. 

At those times, we either need a good clearing or a fueling. 

Because sometimes, even though some of our beliefs and thoughts are very helpful for the situation, the inadequate force behind those helpful thoughts could create stuckness as we cannot give them enough credit to run the show. 

This "I know what I should do, but I can't make a move" type of energy causes tension in our system. 

2- Energy gets stuck in our body and might stored in an unbalanced way. 

Sometimes, simply moving our body or changing a scene can help, too. 

Our body is our vessel in this world. 

No matter how strongly we feel connected with the Universe on a soul level, we still need a healthy and strong physical body to manifest and "succeed" in this 3D world we live in. 

You can always focus on Chakra Healing modalities, Breathwork, Yoga, etc.

However, simply stretching at home or walking outside could really create wonders. 

Take it seriously, listen to your body like another person is trying to tell you something, and then follow its wishes. 

Its wish might be a warm shower at that moment.

A hot drink

A walk in the nature

Dancing

Sleeping 

Screaming :)

Once you have accomplished that, I promise you'll feel more in tune and changed in very subtle ways. 

3- Leave the issue alone. 

The counterintuitive one is to leave the issue alone for a while for energy to clear itself and naturally pick up momentum. 

It is different than being passive. 

If the only thing when we think about this issue is stuckness, then it is better to leave it alone altogether until you can naturally start from at least a neutral place about the subject. 

You can never help any issue from a place of misery, and it is not always easy to think highly about circumstances all the time, either. 

4- Stop saying that I am stuck

Sometimes, the very reason for specific situations to persist is because we want to hold on to them. 

If you could just for a while refuse this identity of "I am stuck at this area of my life," then life will show you how to live as someone who is not stuck in this area of their life. 

After reading this article, if you still feel stuck in certain areas of your life, I sincerely invite you to consider arranging a free call with me to see if I can guide you in your unique circumstances. 

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As always,

Much love 🤎

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